Thank you Teila, that's a very good point and I hadn't thought of that
Also I am having a hard time respecting them when they act like literal children like now... drunk and throwing a fit. :/
Guess I'll just leave for a while and come back later
I hear ya! I too do not tolerant drunks very well.
Time for you to find a distraction so that you are not involved. If I find myself getting annoyed at FIL because he has had too much wine, I go off somewhere and read a book or don the headphones and listen to music, watch a movie or whatever.
Your can not control their actions but your reaction is your responsibility