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[mixedUPturk]

Good day to everyone been busy figuring things out... last month on the 26 my BF son passed suddenly in his sleep we’re pretty sure it’s an overdose and he’s left three children behind...I really thought this chapter was over in my life time for grandkids and whatnot but now there’s a 12 year old girl, 8 yr old boy, and 7 year old boy who are going to be huge in my life...and I’m okay with it...I care deeply for these children heck the whole family but it’s been awhile since I’ve had a house full of kids...their city kids lol I’m bout to make em country bumpkins lol there pretty excited about the chickens think I’m gonna go ahead with incubation for the experience for them...from incubator to raising to harvesting unwanted cockerels...so here’s to being a Grandma mommy wish me luck lol

Hello Mrs Angie Mae its nice to meet you! I love that your taking on those children i am a mom to three who are not even biologically my own. They are a teenager and twin 3 yr olds. Those babies have had me in their life every day of their life because their mother wont step up. Shes been homeless for over 2 years now bouncing pillar to post. Hasnt held a job for over 3 months during their entire lives. We didnt want to take them away from their mother but it was becoming dangerous and they were just tiny babies. She often called me screaming to come get them theyre crying and she couldnt handle it. We already had them 50:50 from age 1 month. If you need someone to talk to please PM me anytime.

i to you

and i am terribly sorry for the loss of your son. Addiction is an absolutely terrible thing that i understand all too well

 

[pennyJo1960]

If a child is gifted in you life give them love my book, saw the movie

 

[shawluvsbirds]

I am sick of holliday's. Do I get flowers? Do make a big meal,go out spend money I don't have .Besides Ben has been fretting for a few days ,and exploded when he got home yesterday.So planing to cook special for DW was the right choice ,going out was out of the question.Simple card humorous and a added line if she felt lucky I could take care of that too ,then handed her some scratch off lottery tickets .I never know .Can't have house plants Ben destroys everything .So I feel like a short order cook .Ben will only eat certain things .None of what I cooked for her.It's no wonder I never feal like eating after cooking .DW was happy so I did good .I don't care what you do to salmon. I don't like it .DW loves it I don't even like cooking it .But I'm under contrat .

Your a good man K.

 

[WVduckchick]

Evening Pondies. Sour, And the winner is??


Took the kids out on a leash today, as the sun finally showed itself and it was above freezing.

 

[pennyJo1960]

Great photos VW just perfect

 

[bobbi-j]

Here I sit - showered, shaved, deodorized, wearing a suit and tie . All set to go to a theatrical awards dinner. I will be polite, I will be polite, I will -----------------. Had to go as the Princess is up for a 'Best Actress' award. She won that award at this group a couple of years ago but for a much better role in a much better play - the drunken/pill popping mother in "August Osage County." In this more recent play she was the drunken/sociopathic mother------- hmm, typecasting ? Pray for me and my behavior.

Well, how’d it go? Did. Princess win? Did you behave? Were you at least semi-polite?

I am sick of holliday's. Do I get flowers? Do make a big meal,go out spend money I don't have .Besides Ben has been fretting for a few days ,and exploded when he got home yesterday.So planing to cook special for DW was the right choice ,going out was out of the question.Simple card humorous and a added line if she felt lucky I could take care of that too ,then handed her some scratch off lottery tickets .I never know .Can't have house plants Ben destroys everything .So I feel like a short order cook .Ben will only eat certain things .None of what I cooked for her.It's no wonder I never feal like eating after cooking .DW was happy so I did good .I don't care what you do to salmon. I don't like it .DW loves it I don't even like cooking it .But I'm under contrat .
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Ya done good, K!

 

[sourland]

Do the best you can do it with love and it will be a great time for all.
Is it over did she win ? Are you still sane ?

When it comes to kids we do it with love and do the best we can. I get it 'K'.
Princess did not win. Girl who won was in another play with her, and was the one that she thought should win. I was polite, I was even social, but you know 'stuff happens'. Front tooth decides to exit my mouth during the cocktail hour - on hands and knees looking for it. So now snaggle tooth the redneck husband appears. Ate the meal and decided to put the tooth back in since I was done eating. Out it pops again just as a busboy is taking my plate. He turns on his phone light and the two of us hit our knees hunting the errant tooth. What can I say. You can dress me up, but gotta be careful about taking me to the Country Club.

 

[WVduckchick]

When it comes to kids we do it with love and do the best we can. I get it 'K'.
Princess did not win. Girl who won was in another play with her, and was the one that she thought should win. I was polite, I was even social, but you know 'stuff happens'. Front tooth decides to exit my mouth during the cocktail hour - on hands and knees looking for it. So now snaggle tooth the redneck husband appears. Ate the meal and decided to put the tooth back in since I was done eating. Out it pops again just as a busboy is taking my plate. He turns on his phone light and the two of us hit our knees hunting the errant tooth. What can I say. You can dress me up, but gotta be careful about taking me to the Country Club.

oh to have been a fly on the wall.

 

[sourland]

All the Princess said was, "Why did you put it back in?" I replied, "I didn't want to embarrass you." We both cracked up with laughter.

 

[sourland]

Mom always used to say, "The pathway to Hell is paved with good intentions." Smart lady.