I think our birds are starting to lose their minds. Both ducks are trying to go broody and now Mouse, the hen that rejected Lil Quack after it hatched, is trying to go broody AGAIN! Wtf is wrong with our birds this week?!
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I'm still stuck in gender specific mode too, sometimes; no excuse, but I have decades of experience to overcome.I'm so sorry you are having that experience. *hugs* I'm also very sorry if I have ever misgendered you. Even though I use gender neutral pronouns daily I'm still socialized to be gender specific. I'm looking forward to the day when gender isn't such a big deal. I truly believe that it is coming.
You make an excellent point about the evolution of language!I'm still stuck in gender specific mode too, sometimes; no excuse, but I have decades of experience to overcome.
A long time ago (1970s), just about everyone was he/him, unless you knew specifically the person was female. Example: "Everyone was sitting at his desk."
So, um, what about the girls, huh? People began to say, "sitting at his or her desk." Long and clunky, that.
"They" wasn't considered the best substitute, because it meant plural. There was a attempt to get a gender neutral singular, but it didn't catch on. Maybe because no one word got used enough.
So now they/them is both plural and singular gender neutral. I'm totally FINE with that! It's easy to use, and the meaning is usually clear by context.
English does not exist in a vacuum. It changes, and it's changing faster now. Want to see how much has changed? Think of Shakespeare. It's kind of hard to read. Well, try Chaucer. You need a translation.
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it ran away@chickentrains what happened to your pfp?
I'm sorry. Hugs for you.it ran away