That's how it goes here also. We eat our extra boys, even the bantams. If that's an option for you... it's a really good one in my opinion.Great lives for the roosters as long I can & a quick humane ending when that time comes.
Everyone here lives a great life before they have one bad moment. It has given me a real appreciation for the circle of life. And knowing where my food comes from and how it was treated EVERY moment feels very rewarding! No, I don't like processing. But it's a task that gets done as part of my flock management to keep the stock I do have healthy and content.
Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders! A welcome addition to BYC!