This year will be our first xmas with our new dog, Duchess. Every year we go to my inlaws for breakfast to open gifts, then snack and enjoy each other's company until dinner. We eat dinner, watch a movie and then go home. It is literally an all day affair. There is one issue this year though: the dogs. My inlaws have a terrier mix that is dog aggressive. Duchess is dog aggressive as well in the sense that she is "socially awkward". She wants to be friends but if she reaches the end of her leash she then becomes aggressive. We haven't had the opportunity to train her out of this with "bullet proof" dogs and professional training is not in the budget. My inlaws have made NO effort to train it out of their dog and don't seem to care too much about it. They insist that "they can be friends" but everytime they have brought their dog over, Sassy (their dog) growls, barks and bites the air at Duchess. Obviously not a good training opportunity as it could lead to negative feelings towards other dogs.
With this background you can see why I need some advice. It wouldnt be fair to keep Duchess locked up all day. It also wouldnt be fair to expect that of their dog. It wouldnt be fair to have one dog outside all day in the back yard and one in the house. Plus we'd have to swap them to go potty. I'm not sure how to handle it other than saying we can not stay all day and just come back for dinner later. They dont live far away but it would be inconvenient. Any advice?
With this background you can see why I need some advice. It wouldnt be fair to keep Duchess locked up all day. It also wouldnt be fair to expect that of their dog. It wouldnt be fair to have one dog outside all day in the back yard and one in the house. Plus we'd have to swap them to go potty. I'm not sure how to handle it other than saying we can not stay all day and just come back for dinner later. They dont live far away but it would be inconvenient. Any advice?