It's offense you maybe can't live with because it opens up a crack inside your thinking, and if you look down into it you see there are evil things down there, and they have little yellow eyes that don't blink, and there's a stink down there in that dark and after a while you think maybe there's...
:hugsdon't beat up on yourself! There's nothing wrong with having a big heart. You just gotta learn to not let people take advantage of it.
People lie. A lot. Never take anything at face value! ;)